Monday, October 29, 2012

Halloween Costumes

I have never really liked dressing up for Halloween.  I like the idea, but I usually don't feel like putting much effort or money into a costume that I will only wear for a few hours.  This year I felt like we came up with a fun family costume theme that required very little effort on my behalf and most everything can be re-worn!  


Meet our little doctor!  I am a nurse and Daddy is the patient.  To add a bit of humor, Kyle is dressed up as a friend who had a recent visit to the hospital. (so glad he is a good sport ;-p )

Wish we got a little better picture, you can't really see Kyle's black eye and bloody nose.  Munchkin also refused to let go of his friend's baseball glove and is eating a cookie.  This one was taken at a party this weekend, maybe we will try again before trick-or-treating.  

A funny side note, I ordered Little Man's scrubs online and it turns out they say "big brother" on them!  Maybe if I get pregnant in the next few months he will be able to wear this to the hospital. :)  Way to think ahead, huh?

I Love Pumpkins :)


I absolutely love this time of year.  I love the glow of the sun in the afternoons.  I love the changing colors of the trees.  I will admit, it is a bit different from New England where I grew up... but I do appreciate the surprise warm days (even if they don't feel like fall).  It always seems like such a short season though, before we know it we are getting ready for Christmas.  So, while I really didn't create an official fall check-list ahead of time... I'm thinking about it now before the season is gone!  

Fall Check-List

  • Visit the Pumpkin Farm
  • Light Pumpkin Scented Candles
  • Go to Halloween Parties
  • Carve Pumpkins
  • Paint Pumpkins
  • Roast Pumpkin Seeds
  • Cook Lots of Chili
  • Bake Pumpkin Cookies Protein Bars
  • Bake Apple Crisp Protein Bars
  • Watch The Nightmare Before Christmas (or anything spooky)
  • Watch Charlie Brown Holiday Movies
  • Read Halloween Themed Children's Books to Munchkin
  • Take a Nature Walk/Play in the Leaves
  • New Sweaters and Hoodies!
  • Go Trick-or-Treating
  • Read a Mystery/Scary Novel
  • Take Fall Family Pictures
  • Pumpkin Pie (have to wait for Thanksgiving for this special treat!)
  • Make Some Christmas Presents
  • Early Christmas Shopping
  • Organize House/Garage
  • Complete Yard Work Before Winter
  • Fun Run or 5k !!! (really want to do this but might not get a chance with how busy Kyle is this fall)
  • LOTS OF FAMILY TIME WHILE DADDY IS HOME!!!





Sunday, October 28, 2012

Live Fit, Week 3: Motivation

I have discovered a lot about myself since I started this program.

Strength: Motivation to hit the gym.  
Weakness: Reese's Peanut Butter Cups.    

Strength: Legs
Weakness: Shoulders

That about sums up my week, 3 down 9 to go!
          
Once again, I struggled with the meal plan this week.  Workout Buddy and I had a good laugh when we realized this program is taking us straight through the holidays.  Honestly, I thought ahead about that and I have no problem with a few cheat days for family meals and parties.  I am a bit disappointed with myself, however, that I have already exceeded my Halloween candy limit and it is not even Halloween yet!!  It all comes down to motivation though.  I know if I wasn't taking weekly pictures and writing about my progress, I wouldn't have the motivation to start clean each week with my diet.  I don't care how many times I fail, I will try this again every Monday until I don't have to think about it anymore.  It will certainly get embarrassing if I have to write this out again next week!  My goal is 80% for this week -- Little Man's candy tax on Wednesday, then maybe a cheat meal on the weekend depending on what comes up.

I have to admit, I used to think Pinterest was a silly waste of time-- but a useful bookmark tool.  Now, however, I love to browse through the Health & Fitness category because it is filled with motivational quotes.  While I really don't need outside motivation to want to work out... some of them, cheesy as they may be, help pump me up for the day's activities and diet.

  
  

I have been feeling much stronger, especially when I "test" myself with pull-ups and push-ups.  I did 4.5 pull-ups yesterday and today!  Unfortunately, I seem to have injured my left shoulder.  There are certain movements that I have been really struggling with (mostly rear delt raise and front raise).  Kyle said that it is most likely my rotator cuff, so I am going to try to use resistance bands/machines instead of free weights this week on shoulder day.  I probably should limit other things like pull-ups... :-/

Finally, my weekly picture.  My dad told me I need to wear a shirt.  Because his birthday is this week, I am wearing a shirt. :-p  Also, it looks like I made negative progress due to all the sugar and salt in my system-- so I can't handle putting a progress picture up anyway.  Here is an awkward angle picture of my legs.  :)  I have always hated my legs because they aren't long or straight.  I have learned to loove them!  It is no longer about how they look, it is more about what they can do for me.  It is like they are my little buddies, I thank them for being so strong.  Hah, I'm crazy.


Monday, October 22, 2012

Picture Perfect

This weekend I took some pictures of Kyle's little friend.  Sometimes I miss videography, but little photo sessions like this make me feel better!  This also reminded me that I really, really want to practice my photography.  She was so cute and had lots of fun playing with Kyle, hehe, unfortunately I think she was a bit scared of the big camera- there are a lot of pictures of her running away from me!  I am used to taking pictures while we are out doing things like at the zoo, taking pictures for the sake of pictures is a little bit different.  All in all, lots of fun and some of them came out super cute!!!  I will definitely need to do this for more of our friends!





Friday, October 19, 2012

LiveFit, Week 2: Healthy Habits

I made it through my second week of Jamie Eason's LiveFit Trainer!  It was a rough one but I still feel pretty good about my progress.  I seriously fell off the diet.


Working out in the weight room is by far the easiest part.  I have taken a little hit to my confidence as my workout buddy can consistently lift at least 5 lbs heavier than me-- with perfect form.  That may be an exaggeration ;) but she does keep me on my toes!  I have had the most difficulty targeting specific muscles, especially in my back.  I think that is just one of those things that takes practice and feedback from good friends (another reason to have a workout buddy). One fun thing we are doing as a team is adding a little extra each day to our workouts.  We have been mostly practicing our pull-ups, push-ups, and dips.  My personal bests have been a set of 4-pull ups and a set of 6-dips.  This week was the first time I have ever tried unassisted dips so that was pretty exciting to do 6.  My goal is to be able to do 3 full sets of 10-12 of each.  :)  Someday!



I had intended to post about something other than this training program this week, but honestly, I got pretty busy and this diet has been on my mind constantly.  You can see Jamie's exact diet listed here.  It is broken into 6 basic meals for the day, a few options, and a list of foods that are acceptable on this diet.  This is pretty strict but in my personal opinion, it is worth it.  Most women, even those who "eat healthy" don't eat enough/properly to support muscle growth and maintain muscle.  Many people will see visible results without changing their diet simply because they are burning more calories than they were before, which is ok too if it meets your goals.  I, however, felt like I reached a plateau and I feel like my diet was the biggest factor.

If you look at Jamie's meal plan, its not very detailed.  She leaves a lot of room for personal preference.  It looks boring-- if you aren't eating egg whites, you are probably eating 6oz lean mean w/ 1 starch and veggies, or maybe turkey meatballs... I decided to make myself "options" so I could plan ahead but still change it up every day.  My workout buddy said she ate chili every single day at lunch for over 2 months!  I love chili, but I couldn't do that.  Here is what I came up with.  **there are some things on my personal plan that don't necessarily align with Jamie's particular meal plan -- but they are considered healthy foods in moderation such as peanut butter, honey, and fruits with a high glycemic index--

BREAKFAST: 7am

Option 1: 5 egg whites (or 1 egg + 2 whites) w/tomato, spinach, peppers (or salsa)
                and oatmeal (1 serving) w/ any combination of berries, banana, apple, cinnamon, flaxseed, or protein powder  * favorite meal to eat 1hr before my workout

Option 2: plain greek yogurt (1 serving) w/ berries + homemade granola  *for when i am in a rush

Option 3: 1 english muffin (whole grain) w/ natural peanut butter + berries/banana *for weekend mornings when I am craving sweets and comfort

Mid-Morning: 10am

Option 1: 4 homemade protein squares *usually driving home right after my workout

Option 2: protein shake made with almond milk *within 30 min post- workout

Option 3: 1 cup fat-free cottage cheese w/ berries, fruit, cinnamon, or protein powder

(also snack on sliced veggies w/ homemade hummus)

Lunch: 12-1pm

Option 1: Buffalo Chicken Salad (6oz grilled chicken over spinach, romaine, tomatoes, 1/4 serving cottage cheese, and cayenne pepper hot sauce) w/ 1 slice Ezekial bread

Option 2: 6ox grilled chicken, 1 sweet potato + a salad *I like to cook chicken and sweet potato ahead of time so all i need to do is mix some chicken chunks into some mashed up sweet potatoes and microwave, I also add berries or apple to salads so I wont need to use any dressing.

Option 3: tuna wrap *when we are getting low on fresh foods there is nothing wrong with a can of tuna, mix with plain yogurt or cottage cheese instead of mayo

Option 4: Leftovers! Whole wheat pasta?  Brown rice?  Yes, please. :)

Mid-Afternoon:  3pm

Option 1: 2 turkey meatballs w/ cayenne pepper sauce

Option 2: Plain greek yogurt w/ cinnamon + berries *i add honey, even though it is high calorie, it is natural and healthy -- all depends on your goals

Option 3: 1/2 ezekial bread chicken pita w/veggies + plain yogurt or hummus

(also snack on sliced veggies w/ homemade hummus)

Dinner: 5-6pm

Option 1: Natalie Hodson's 30-Minute Spaghetti w/ salad

Option 2: Easy Salsa Chicken w/ salad *we usually add some black beans or corn and some plain yogurt -great enchilada filling, for a more relaxed diet cream cheese makes it yummy

Option 3: Taco Turkey Casserole w/fresh veggie toppings *this recipe is on another woman's blog who also is into fitness, the whole entry is really good :)

Option 4: 3-Bean Turkey Chili w/ salad *I don't actually use this recipe, I don't like sweetener in my chili, but still basically the same thing w/ different spices

Option 5: Grilled Chicken/Steak w/ steamed broccoli and brown rice

Option 6: Chicken + Veggie Kabobs over brown rice

Option 7: Lean Meatloaf w/ steamed veggies or salad *we actually like to use this more as a treat/ cheat meal with my own recipe, potatoes, and creamed corn --Kyle's favorite meal

Option 8: Fish in Foil w/ asparagus *I want to try this sooo bad but haven't yet!

Option 9: Turkey Burgers w/salad *i haven't actually tried this recipe, I usually use Jaime's turkey meatball recipe adjusted a bit to make southwest turkey burgers

Option 10: Baked Chicken w/ sweet potatoes or brown rice and steamed veggies

Evening: 8pm

Option 1: egg white + veggie omelet *this is what i should eat

Option 2: 1 scrambled egg and turkey bacon *this is what i actually eat

Option 3: Protein shake w/ almond milk

(Not actually sure how much the turkey bacon in the evening will affect my goals, but I am trying to make the healthiest choice possible at this hour when I usually crave a snack like chips or ice cream to de-stress.  Many nights I actually fall asleep before this meal though.)

Having this plan really makes sticking to a diet soo much easier.  As you can see, I'm definitely not starving myself.  If anything, I haven't been hungry enough in the evening to even be in the mood to cook dinner.

Like I said before though, I crashed pretty hard this week.  I hate excuses but I got my wisdom teeth out on Tuesday and haven't quite gotten back on track with eating clean.  I have still eaten ok (minus the pint of ice cream I ate the night following the surgery) but I am ready to start fresh with this meal plan posted in the kitchen!

Just an important note, I tried to add a lot of variety to my "menu" to make sure I get everything my body needs but I am still keeping in mind Jamie's recommended supplements by taking a multi-vitamin, fish oil, and sometimes extra vitamin c and b vitamins. I also take branched chain amino-acids before my workout.

On another note, if my belly starts growing in these pictures we can all blame my husband.  He is still trying to trick me into getting pregnant.  :)







Saturday, October 13, 2012

Week 1: Jamie Eason's LiveFit 12-Week Trainer

My husband challenged me about a week ago... he said "who do you think can get a six pack first?"  Obviously, I looked at him... and said "me."  So, my clear goal at the moment (before I get pregnant) is to get ripped!  (I don't even know if I used that word properly)  Unfortunately, as the only one who really cooks around here, if I eat better he eats better.  It would take way too much effort on my behalf to sabotage his goals by cooking him a separate meal.  I want to give him a fighting chance.  This isn't to put Kyle down at all... I know he can cut weight and has self-control I can only dream of (when he wants to).  But he is a big guy, and I am already well on my way.  Sooo, here is my before picture!

This is week one of Jamie Eason's LiveFit 12-week trainer at 15% body fat (i think this might have been a bit inaccurate measurement though) There is no need for me to go into details myself as that link has absolutely everything needed for the program.  12-weeks of daily workouts, meal plans, recipes, advice, even videos from Jamie.  If you haven't heard of her, she is an amazing fitness model and she knows what she is talking about. 

I have already been meeting with a trainer at the gym for 10 months.  They usually give me a personalized workout (even have gone as far as telling me specifically what cardio to do on which days)  What has helped the most is how they have taken me step by step through the weight room until I felt comfortable with my whole workout.  I decided to go off on my own for two major reasons: 1. I finally know what most of the terms mean, how to use most of the equipment, and who to ask if I'm not sure.  2. I felt like I reached a plateau and honestly was just looking for a meal planner, but Jamie's plan just looked so perfect I couldn't NOT try it!  

It is broken down into three phases and this first phase is concentrating on eating clean, eating often, eating a ridiculous amount of protein, lifting a lot and ZERO CARDIO!  The plan is to build a lot of muscle right now.  I'm trusting her on this one.  :)

After the first week I feel pretty good and actually really happy with myself.  There is not even a cheat day on this meal plan, but I did let myself have one cookie today.  I couldn't turn down the idea of sharing a cookie with my son while snuggled up in his bed reading books before nap time.  :)  I could have made sugar free cookies or protein bars, but eh.  One cookie.  

I was trying to eat clean already before, but this plan is really strict.  It is easier though, because you plan ahead so you don't have room to think about it.  You also eat so often that you don't get hungry enough to start craving sweets or chips or anything.  Whoever invented protein powder though, is a genius.  I have no idea how they make it so delicious with so little sugar, but the few times I have had cravings I just fill myself up with a deliciously chocolatey protein shake.  I do worry about eating too much, if certain choices I make actually fit the plan.  Overall, I get the idea, she wants you to eat as natural as possible- no more white flour and packaged yuck for me (except that cookie) no more sugars (including limiting sugary fruits)  I'm not going to obsess whether I am supposed to eat a banana before or after the workout or if I need exactly 3/4 cup of oats... becasue I know I am already doing myself a great service by cutting out all the terrible junk I have been snacking on my entire life.  Sure, some days I am too lazy to make 5 egg whites so I make 2 full eggs... I don't think that will make or break this trainer.  :)  

In the gym, it has actually been a blast.  On day 2 a girl I see every day came up to me and asked if I was doing Jamie's trainer.  She had noticed we were doing the same workout, she had just started the same one this week too!  I love making new friends :) She has already done the whole program once, which is great.  She had great results which is good motivation for me.  Also, we can discuss the proper technique and what we are eating.  I love that this was completely random that we met, because we both have the same goals and will be on the same schedule so we can workout together any day.  She also encouraged me to have one of the trainers take my measurements so I can track my progress.  

All in all, I am super excited.  I have never tried anything quite like this before.  I have no idea what I am training for, other than to show Kyle that I can do it.  Haha.  Wish me luck. :)

The Rearview Mirror

I can't believe a whole year has gone by since my first attempt with this blog.  I have never been one to share my thoughts freely.  I enjoy writing and thinking, but I have never liked the thought of other people actually reading what I write.  Most of the blogs I enjoy to read are short and sweet tutorials of someone else's great idea.  That is definitely not what this blog will be.  :)  As much as I would like to be that person... writing is how I organize my thoughts.  I can't go into a writing endeavor pre-organized, not by choice anyway.

There are many reasons why I quit writing last year.  I think the major one was that I got stressed out and it felt like everything I wrote was pretty negative.  It was good for me to write and have an outlet for the stress, but who would want to read that?  Certainly not me.  delete.  

There were a few major things going on this time last year, I wonder if I can recap my whole year in the rearview mirror?

We were pregnant, but had a miscarriage very early on.  I will breeze by this because it is so personal.  For us, this was our second miscarriage, we have already been blessed with an amazing little boy and certainly have considered adoption in the future.  There is a pang in my heart for the little person who might have been, but I believe everything happens for a reason.

I quit my job and we sold our brand new truck to make the financial difference easier, we did this on faith that everything would work out.  A few weeks later Kyle's Grandma blessed us with her minivan. I was 100% ready to stay home without a car, give Kyle rides to work, whatever we needed to do... this gift really changed our whole year as little man and I had complete freedom again.

I started working out.  (This is what I did for me this year.)  After the miscarriage, I took it as a blessing to challenge myself to get in shape.  We had the minivan, so little man and I started going to the gym 3-4 times a week.  I had no plan, no goals, no idea what I even wanted to look like... I just wanted to be active and feel like my old self.  I met with a trainer and started weight training.  I remember thinking, eh... weights... thats a guy thing.  Then once I started lifting weights I started gaining muscle, losing weight, burning fat, feeling better... in the first 6 weeks I could do a pull-up!  I was able to run better.  I was able to control my mood better.  I became more conscious of what we were eating.  Working out has completely changed my life.  I feel like I am in control of who I want to be.  During the summer I even tried on the little black dress from our honeymoon and it fit!!

To tell the truth, what motivated me to start writing again is my interest in learning more about fitness and also a way to track my own progress.  I really don't want to set out with a plan though.  We still want to get pregnant in the next few months.  I am still trying to figure out how to be a good mom, wife, and homemaker.  And, although I hate to admit it, we will still struggle with the challenges of being a military family.  I strive for what most women strive for: balance.  I have many thoughts to share and while I may not actively seek out people to read them, I think future me will appreciate me doing this.  So here it is, again, writing with no direction.  :)